Wow...where to start. It's almost 8 pm here and Jay-R is still wired! Here's our journey today...
Our social worker met us here at 12:15. We rode the 20-30 minute ride in crazy Manila traffic to the orphanage. When we arrived, Jay-R was still sleeping, so we had time to talk to his social worker from the orphanage about his routine, likes, etc. Another couple from the Netherlands arrived to meet their son as well. Jay-R appeared about 20 minutes after our arrival. He came right to me. He was quiet but not hestitant at all. His photo album we had made for him was clutched in his hand. He soon went to Kory and then Ashleigh as well. We took time walking around the grounds with him, playing cars, and meeting his friends. We received a tour of the orphanage, too. He hung tight to me and loved being carried. He is just so absolutely sweet. They said he loves to be cuddled and hugged and it is apparent. We had a Mass and Turnover ceremony. Ashleigh taped it for us. Jay-R's close friend served as the altar boy. The orphanage treated us and the other family to spaghetti (his favorite food), sweet bread, and mini hotdogs. The spaghetti is sweeter than ours but very good. They had given us a lifebook at the ceremony and before leaving, we received a SpiderMan backpack filled with clothing and other small items. They also gave him a Sponge Bob gift bag with goodies in it for him. We hugged the social workers and told everyone bye before leaving. The ride back was during rush hour traffic-people were everywhere-at the market, leaving school, crazy! He was very excited to get to the hotel. We told our social worker bye and went upstairs. Kory showed him the view from the window and he saw the swimming pool. We had to go swimming. Although it is warm here, the breeze had picked up so we swam only briefly, until he was shivering. We came upstairs and had snacks. He has said some cute things:
"I know English." "Tom and Jerry" (the cartoon is on) "I love Mommy" "I love Daddy" "I love Ate" (ate is the filipino word for big sister)
He called the Manila Bay a swimming pool which cracked us up. His English is here and there. He speaks primarily in tagalog but seems to understand English.
We have noticed food hoarding. He stores things under the pillow. Under Kory's pillow, he stashed 3 packs of cookies, 2 apples, and an orange. The orphanage staff told us he often put things under his pillow. Kory was just hoping his soggy mango didn't end up under the pillow! He is a fruit boy! The hotel provides fresh fruit daily in our room. So far, Jay-R has eaten 2 bananas, 1 mango, and 1 apple since we've been back!
Well, we need to work on getting him to bed. Tomorrow is a free day to bond and have fun with our little man! God is good!
8 comments:
Awe Tammy, just brought tears to my eyes. You are such a special family and Jay-R is so lucky to have you as you are to have him. Keep posting. Thanks!!!!
Wow! Sounds amazing!! God does good, no great work!! I can't beilieve you finally have Jay-R! It seems like we talked about it happening forever, yet it seems to have come so fast!! Jay-R is so lucky and from the sounds of it you are lucky too, he sounds like a wonderful and loving person!
The dogs are doing great! Despite the occational outburst of barking everything is going great! Froggy is doing good too!
Hope you have a great week and a safe trip home! We'll be praying for you!
Tears are streaming down my face! Our heart is so so so happy for you.
Finally!
Tammy.....is this "fruit" boy meant for you or what...he will fit right in at your house.
Our God is so awesome!
We are overjoyed for you all!
Give that baby a kiss for me.
We love you guys so much!
Paul, Sherry & Olivia
What a wonderful way to meet Jay R! It sounds like things couldn't have gone any better!
Enjoy your exciting week with him in the Philippines! You're all in our prayers.
Yay!! I'm crying along with everyone else! We're so happy for you and glad things are going well. Just bond, bond and bond and have a great time! Can't wait to meet him! Love ya! Kandy
You and your boy are finally together!! He sounds like a real cutie and isn't it just great that he loves to cuddle. You can't beat cuddling! Take care and have a safe and wonderful trip.
congratulations and i hope everything i going good. hope to see u guys in a couple weeks. love you guys,
Amanda Clark
Wow!! Tammy that is so great we are all very happy for you and your family. Have a great time! Can't wait to meet Jay-R when you get back. Tell Ashleigh we all miss her to here at Fulton Manor.
Candy
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