The past two nights have been, um, what's the word...a bit frustrating.
They have been struggles of power. Who's in control here?
Jay-R: "I want another story."
Me: "Sorry, honey. It's already pass your bedtime. We'll read another one tomorrow."
Jay-R; "I want a story NOW!"
Okay....well, we didn't read that other story tonight either because...
Me: "Honey, it's time for bed."
Jay-R: "I don't want to go to bed, I want to stay up late!"
on and on and on....
These kind of nights are frustrating. He is defiant, finds out he is not getting his way, and then becomes teary while still being angry. We eventually end with the "I'm sorries" and good-night kisses with promises of I still love you, will always love you, but you're still not watching TV tomorrow-that's called punishment.
Life lessons and disciplining in love....leaves me hoping for better sweet dreams tomorrow!!!! I know I pushed my parents' buttons and had my own moments of defiance. Guess it all comes back to us!!!
And someday, I will add some new pics...I promise!
3 comments:
Tammy, I hear so many of the ladies that I work with talk about similar stuggles with their children and they are always wondering what is the best way to handle things. Disciplining a child sounds like one of the most difficult parts of parenting. Good luck and it is wonderful that you reassure Jay-R that you will always love him!
I find very precious that parents just like you can say no and make limit to their child... That is helping and loving him!! :)(word of educator :D)
Patriciaxx
Disciplining is not fun! It tough to figure out how to be firm and loving at the same time. Sounds like you're doing a wonderful job, although I'm sure you must be feeling very tired.
Blessings!
Deborah
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